How do I change one sprite's frame, but also change all the other sprites to a different frame?

Hello,

I'm brand new, and tried my best to check the docs and search the forums, but I wasn't able to find an answer.

What I'm trying to do is toggle a single sprite's frame, while at the same time, change all the other sprites to a different frame.

For example, if I have 4 instances of a sprite, and I tap on one of them. I want to change that sprite's frame to 1, and change the other 3 instances to frame = 0. (think about a menu UI where only the last tapped "button" is highlighted).

I hope that makes sense, and I thank everyone in advance for any help!

-Stobe