With r214 containers are now picked with parents/children, so the workaround in my previous posts is no longer required.
The new picking options (top/own/all) are very useful - and combined with families - it's easy to pick the entire hierarchy - worst case would be two events - pick top parent -> pick all children.
The synergy of the scene graph with containers and families is great actually. In my opinion it is hitting the sweet spot on flexibility and ease of use.
Looking back on my wish list I think the only one I would still really want is an event for parent/child destroyed.
I also tend to think that children should inherit z-order, layer and z-elevation from the parent by default. Technically these are visual properties, but since Construct is a pure 2D engine, they are effectively the z-coordinate.