So choose-your-own-adventure books/games are second person? Eg. "You go in to the cave... press A to light a match, B to shout etc"
that's the only example in literature.
In games not so much but when the player presses a button, he is performing the action, so the game is actually addressing his in-game persona, so it's first person.
In a 2nd person game, characters would have to address you (the player, not your in-game character).